What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 28.06.2025 09:14
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
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84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Any that are a turn off?
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75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
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32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
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40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
What was your biggest culture shock going to Europe?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
How do online business networking groups compare to in-person ones?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
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62~ Have you used adult toys?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
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59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
Family Relation Age Play
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
If you win, what will you make them do?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
What is your favorite position? Why?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
How old are you? Male or Female?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
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29- How superstitious are you?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
Please share Did you stop?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
Any that are a turn off?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
*** Questions About Me ***
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
Nothing too Serious
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
Would you read them together?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
The Ice Breaker Questions
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
*** Random Questions ***
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
If yes, what?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
39~ What are your love languages?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
52~ What are your hobbies?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
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37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?